How To Have The Most Magical, Romantic, And Emotional Wedding
Day Of Your Dreams!
7 Amazing Secrets Revealed!
Dear Bride To Be,
Congratulations on your engagement! How exciting and romantic! Now, let’s guarantee you have a fantastic
and romantic wedding day - full of love,
emotion and beauty! (Believe it or not,
that does take some planning!)
This
letter is not for every Bride To Be... is it for you?
If you are looking
to have an “average” wedding - one that is stressful and not very organized,
one where the guests hardly get to see you, one where you are so exhausted that
you can hardly smile. One
where it seems like you’re constantly putting out “fires” and solving
emergencies. One where “so many
things just went wrong”...
Then this letter
is not for you. I’m sorry for wasting
your time. Please read no further.
But...
...if you’re a
bride who wants her wedding to be PERFECT, and the most romantic,
beautiful and emotional day of your life; if you want to enjoy every minute of
your day; if
you want to be the most ravishingly beautiful bride your friends and relatives
have ever seen; if you want to spend
wonderful, quality time with your guests;
if you want to remember with happy tears in your eyes all the love,
emotion and joys of the day...
Then this is going
to be the most exciting letter you have ever received! Really!
My name is James Ortman, and I LOVE weddings! I’ve been photographing them for 33 years -
not because I have to for the money, (I have a very successful portrait
photography business that makes me a very comfortable living) but rather
because I WANT to, because I love the emotion and romance
of your wedding.
Maybe you’ve seen
my photography or someone has referred us….
Here’s
How To Have The Most Magical, Romantic, And Emotional
Wedding Day Of Your Dreams!
If you’re still
reading, let me congratulate you. This
means you want to be the most beautiful bride
anywhere. You want your wedding to be a
wonderfully emotional and romantic day.
You want to have everything go smoothly and perfectly, You want to have a great
time. You want to see all your guests, and have them also have a fun
time. Well, here’s how to do it:
Here’s
7 Secrets To Having The Wedding Of Your Dreams!
SECRET
#1: How To
Guarantee Your Wedding
Lives Up To Your Dreams.
Believe it or not,
the photographer you select to photograph your wedding can make or break your
wedding day. Yes, I kid you not, your wedding
day - not just your photographs! Why? Because he’s THERE - with you and your family, in person -
interacting with all your family and guests - and representing you every
minute.
Now, HONESTLY,
we’re not just talking about photography here - we’re talking
about YOUR WEDDING - how YOU FEEL on your wedding day, and how
smoothly and romantically everything goes.
You see, your photographer determines this, by the way he helps you plan
your wedding, the way he treats you and your loved ones, and the way he
conducts himself throughout the day.
Amazing
Secret Revealed - What Other Wedding Photographers Don’t Want You To Know!
So here’s the
secret: Meet the photographer - IN
PERSON - before you hire anyone to photograph your wedding! Most brides don’t realize that many studios
hire part time photographers to photograph their weddings for them - high
school and college kids, friends, relatives, etc. This means that you go to a studio, talk with
a salesperson, look at their samples, and make a decision - without really
knowing who will be photographing your wedding!
And if it’s not
just the right person doing the photography, and interacting with all your
family and guests, everything can be ruined!
So, when you’re
talking with a potential studio, ask them the following questions:
1. Who did these photographs you are showing me?
2. Who, by name, will be photographing our
wedding if we hire your studio?
3. We want to MEET this person, BEFORE we hire
your studio.
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Then, when you
meet this person, ask him or her the following
questions:
1. How will you dress at my wedding?
2. Did you do ALL the samples of wedding
photography we saw in the sample books?
If not, show us YOUR work, please.
3. How long have you been photographing
weddings?
4. How long will you be at my wedding?
5. Before you leave our wedding, who do you
check with first to see if there’s anything else we would like you to do?
6. Do you work from a checklist of photos? (You NEVER want a photographer who needs a
checklist doing your wedding photography!
He’ll spend all his time looking at the list, and miss all the
wonderful, romantic and spontaneous moments of your wedding! Any photographer who is any good won’t need
to follow a checklist - he or she will KNOW all the photographs that need to be
captured.)
Then, decide if
you REALLY LIKE THE PHOTOGRAPHER, as well as his or her work! Because this person is
going to be spending a lot of time with you and your family and friends, on
your important day.
By the way, just
so you know, here’s my answers to those questions:
I’m the ONLY wedding
photographer at my studio. I will be
photographing your wedding personally.
I will dress in a nice suit and tie (NOT A TUX, AND NOT JUST SLACKS AND
A SHIRT! I don’t want to take anything
away from your groom and groomsmen and the fathers, and I also don’t want to
dress casually, and not represent you professionally.)
I have been
photographing weddings, as I mentioned earlier, for _____ years. Can you fill in the blank? Just checking to see if you’re paying
attention! It’s
33 years!
I’ll be at your
wedding until you, your husband (how exciting - your “husband!”), your parents,
and your husband’s parents all say they have nothing else for me to do. I NEVER will leave your wedding without
checking with all of the above people!
I use no
checklist. Instead, I learn the names
and relationships of all the members of your wedding party, and both
families! I refer to them by name, and I
know their relationship to you, so I can be constantly watching for those
special, magical and spontaneous moments that will be so meaningful to you to
have photographs of!
SECRET
#2: Announcing The Single Most Important
‘Secret’ You MUST Know About Weddings!
Here’s a really
big “secret” that almost no brides think about when interviewing a potential
photographer: What’s their
guarantee? What happens if you aren’t
happy with the photography, or the way you and your friends were treated, or if
the photographer left your wedding before he was supposed to, etc.
This is of the
utmost importance! The guarantee (make
sure it’s in writing!) tells you just how committed they are going to be
in taking good care of you, and doing a great job.
And, just so you
know, here’s our IRON CLAD, 100% MONEY BACK GUARANTEE: You will be THRILLED (not just
‘satisfied’) with how we represented you and your family at your wedding, and
also THRILLED with your photographs, or we will do whatever
necessary to have you be THRILLED with them, or we will return ALL YOUR
MONEY. Period. No hard feelings either. We want you to LOVE everything we do for you!
You see, we
understand that you can’t do this over again.
This is a “one-time-thing” and everything MUST be perfect! You have our written guarantee that we’ll
take really good care of you!
SECRET
#3: An Important Warning: Miss This Secret, And A Disaster Could Happen
At Your Wedding!
This seems so
obvious, and yet brides miss this one all the time, and pay a BIG PRICE for it
after their wedding! Be sure the
photographer has lots of happy brides and grooms, who have taken time to write
and tell the photographer how happy there were with
both him, and his work! We’re talking
TESTIMONIALS here! From real people,
with their full names, and their city and state, so you can call them if you
want to, just to “check them out” and make sure that they really said what the
photographer says they said. (That’s a
hard sentence to read, but you get the point!
Sorry!)
I’m sorry to be so
skeptical, but we live in a time in history when you have to be really careful
to be certain that people are telling you the truth.
You will notice
that throughout this letter are photographs and testimonials from some of the
brides and grooms whom we have been honored to work with on their wedding
day. Also notice that their FULL names,
city and state are listed, so, if you really wanted to, you could look them up
in the phone book, and call them.
SECRET
#4:
One of the things
that you really want to look for in your photographer,
is someone who is an EMOTIONAL STORY TELLER! An artistic photographer
whose images combine to tell the EMOTIONAL STORY of your family,
your friends, and your wedding day.
This is really important, if you are looking for photographs which will
be PRICELESS to you for years and years to come!
And here’s why
this is so important! If an artist is
an EMOTIONAL STORY TELLER, there’s a really good chance that he will be
compassionate about not ruining the romance, beauty and emotions of your day. You see, only a true romantic can truly
understand how important this day is to you, and how perfectly you want it to
go.
And a true
romantic will be sensitive to NOT INTERFERING WITH THE EMOTIONAL ROMANTIC FLOW
OF YOUR DAY!
I could
tell you so many horror stories here.
But let me just mention one so you understand how important this is.
Back when I was
just starting out in photography, I heard about a photographer who was hiding
behind some flowers up at the altar (something that I will NEVER do!) and he
dropped a lens on the marble floor with a huge crash, and then swore out loud
so loud that everyone heard it! (He
obviously wasn’t a romantic EMOTIONAL STORY TELLER or he wouldn’t have ruined
the romance and religious significance of the ceremony by hiding behind flowers
where everyone could see him come and go - and, of
course, there is NO excuse for profanity!)
So, looking for a
romantic, EMOTIONAL STORY TELLER, who will beautifully
tell the story of your love for each other, and for your family and friends,
will also result in someone who will respect you and your wishes, and conduct
himself in only the most professional and friendly way, because he understands
in the most intimate way, the importance of the “Story of Your Wedding Day.”
And, by the way,
my brides tell me that they really love the way I emotionally tell the story of
their wedding day. That’s why I became a
photographer - to tell the wonderful true stories of romantic couples in love.
SECRET
#5: The Truth About Wedding
Photographers Revealed. What They Don’t
Want Me To Tell You!
It is not my
intention to say anything bad about any other photographers in the area. I know most of them personally, and count
many of them as my friends. However, it
is really important that I alert you, in this letter, to some of the problems
that you otherwise would never know about.
Well, here’s a
“biggie.” Most photographers will cram
as many weddings into a day as they humanly can. Many times, this means they must rush from
your wedding, to get to another, and then rush from that one, to get to
another.
This type of
photographer just isn’t going to be able to capture the EMOTIONS, ROMANCE,
LOVE, AND RELATIONSHIPS between you and your husband,
and also between you and your family and friends. That photographer just won’t have the
sensitivity and enthusiasm and love for what he does to be able to capture
those feelings. And he won’t have the
time or energy.
You
Won’t Believe This, But I Assure You, It’s True!
For example, I
won’t mention any names here, but I once knew a photographer who photographed
so many weddings in a single day, that the only way he could remember the names
of the bride and groom at each wedding was to write their first names on
masking tape, and stick it to the back of his camera! Not only that, but if he had, say five
weddings, he would simply stack layers of masking tape on the back of the
camera, and as he left one wedding for the next, he would just rip off that
layer, and the next couples names were now showing! I swear to you this is true!
By the way, I ONLY
photograph ONE wedding per day.
You get me for the ENTIRE DAY. I understand how important this day is to you,
and I am there for you!
This also means
that I’m rested and energetic. It also means I’m enthusiastic about what I will
be doing for you. As I mentioned
earlier, I photograph weddings because I LOVE them, not because I have
to do them. And since I only photograph
one wedding a day, I’m not tired or “burned out on your important day.”
SECRET
#6: A Remarkable Secret To Truly
Enjoying
Your Wedding Day, And Having It Filled With Wonderful, Emotional Moments!
This is so
important! Be sure the photographer you
hire has a “team” approach to taking good care of you on your day. This means that he isn’t going to be trying
to work alone to photograph your important day.
You see, doing a
really super, romantic, EMOTIONAL STORY of your day requires a
huge amount of planning, care, and effort.
More effort than just one person can do.
Let me
explain.
I will arrive at
your wedding with my Creative Director and Wedding Consultant, Cindy, who also
is my wife and partner. She has a HUGE
responsibility during the day, and is the true secret to our success in wedding
photography.
She makes certain
that you look fantastic, every minute of the day! She’s not going to be taking
photographs! She’s just going to be helping
you with your dress and flowers, fixing your veil before a photograph so it
looks PERFECT, fixing your train so it is perfect for the photographs,
etc.
Plus, she brings
you a drink if you’re thirsty in the receiving line. She finds your best friend from college if
you ask for her. She helps you in any
way she can to assure that you have a wonderful day, as well as wonderful
photographs. And on
and on and on.
We are a TEAM. A team that together, guarantees that you not
only have a great time on your wedding day, but also assures you of having PERFECTLY
EMOTIONAL photographs!
Let me explain:
The Magic Of “E.F.P” On Your
Wedding Day!
You see, I don’t
really look at it as “wedding photography,” but rather as “Emotional Family
Photography (E.F.P.) created on your wedding day!” It’s all the emotions, relationships and
personalities of all your friends and relatives, captured in beautiful images
for you and your family to cherish for the rest of your lives. After all, isn’t that what you really want?
“E.F.P.” is one of
the major things that separates me from all the other
wedding photographers in the area. I
want to capture the love, relationships, personalities, and
emotions of all your family and friends for you to enjoy and view with
happy tears in your eyes for years and years to come!
Aren’t
The People and The Emotions Of Your Life What Matter The Most To You?
Because
it’s the PEOPLE and the EMOTIONS of your life that
are so valuable to you. Yes,
you’ll also see the beautiful dresses and flowers. Yes, you’ll see the lovely ceremony,
etc. But more, much
more than that. You’ll
feel the emotions that you and your fiancée feel toward each other and toward
your best friends and family members on this magical day. Yes, FEEL them each time you view your
photographs. That’s what I am driven to
do for you!
You see, you want
photography that “speaks” to you with love, emotion, respect, and the glorious
feelings you will be feeling on your wedding day. You want your photography to “tell the story”
of your wedding day, AND your families and friends. Most photographers,
bless their hearts, just want to “record the event, and go home.”
I want you to cry
when you see the photographs! Cry tears
of happiness, because in those photographs are all the people you and your
husband love and care about - showing their real personalities and emotions
like you never dreamed they would! Most
photographers just want to get home before
Don’t Miss The “Emotional Moments” Of Your Day Because Your
Photographer Didn’t Have The Vision To See And Capture Them In A Sensitive,
Your day will be
filled with beautiful “Emotional Moments” that you will
never experience again in your life.
Those “Moments” are what I am driven to capture for you.
Here’s
just three examples:
NEW! -
I’m The ONLY Photographer In This Area Who Does This!
An Amazing And Wonderfully Emotional Way To Express
Your Love For Your Dad On Your Wedding Day!
As a father
myself, I can assure you that one of the most emotional moments in a dad’s life
is when he “gives his little girl away” at the beginning of your ceremony. Your dad will never forget it.
But now, there’s
something full of emotional magic that you can give your dad when he gives you
away! At that very powerful moment in
his and your life, you hand him a surprise “Father’s Pride” that
he carries with him back to the pew, and as he reads your personal message to
him, and looks at the emotional photograph of you in your wedding gown, he
begins to cry with tears of joy and love!
This is a moment both you and your father will remember for the rest of
your lives.
Don’t miss that
moment!
The
Magic Moment When The
Love Of
Your Life First Sees You!
Or the incredible
moment when your fiancée first sees you in your wedding gown - perfect in every
way - with your lovely flowers, the beautiful veil and headpiece - everything
which you selected specifically for him - as the tears swell up in his eyes,
and he tells you how very much he loves and adores you.
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miss that moment!
A Magic
Moment With Grandma
Or, if you are
lucky enough to still have a living grandmother, the lovely moment when she
reaches up and puts her arms around you, and with tears in her eyes, tells you
how beautiful you look and how much she loves you, and how proud she is of you.
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miss that moment!
I could go on and
on. Your entire day will be made up of
brief, priceless moments like these. Let’s make sure first of all that your day is
so beautifully organized and planned that these moments truly can happen, and
then let’s help you to be so stress free, but excited, that you can enjoy and
remember these wonderful, magical moments for the rest of your life.
How do we do that?
I’ll bet you think
I’m going to say that you do this through the photography. Right? Wrong!
The way we help these moments happen, and help you remember them, is to help
you have a wonderful, romantic and emotional
day! A day
where everything goes perfectly.
As long as we do that, the rest will take care of itself (providing your
photographer does know what he or she is doing).
That’s what Cindy
and I will do for you.
Oh, if
you ever talk with a photographer
who says this to you, run away as fast as you
can!
If he says, “You
photographs are all you will have after the wedding is over. Your flowers will be dead, your cake will be
eaten, etc. - but you’ll have your photographs!
They are the most important thing about your wedding!” - then he’s NOT the photographer for you!
Why not? Because if he says that, he has a completely
false impression of his importance, and will try to run your day and take
charge! Don’t let that happen! Because the photographs ARE NOT THE MOST
IMPORTANT THING - the romance, emotions and relationships are the most
important thing! A great photographer
will be able to capture all the great moments, without detracting from the
magic of your day.
SECRET
#7: How To Be Assured That You Will Be
The Most Beautiful Bride Your Friends Or Relatives Have Ever Seen!
You deserve to
have a wedding day where you are the most beautiful bride any of your friends
or relatives have ever seen.
That’s the dream of every girl when she begins visualizing her wedding
day. And you deserve to have that! Let’s see to it that is exactly what
happens! How? Simple. Yes, you will select the perfect dress,
headpiece, veil, flowers, shoes, etc.
Yes, you will have
your hair and make up done. But it goes
much deeper than that. You see, beauty
is also in the way you FEEL on your wedding day. The way your emotions show on your face, and the way you glow when you walk down the isle and
look in the eyes of the love of your life.
Many of my brides
will understand this when I say it: When
you hire us to photograph your wedding, you’re really paying for Cindy and I to be there. To take all the pressures and tensions out of the day for you. You know that we are there, and that we truly
care about you, and will help you with EVERYTHING so the day goes perfectly. That’s really what our brides are paying us
for. The photographs are free. They’re just an added “bonus!”
You see, if you,
your husband (there’s that great word again!) and your family and guests are
all having a wonderful time, you will be more beautiful than you have even dreamed you would
be. Because there will be no tension
there. And, by the way, your photographs
will be WONDERFUL, too, because you looked so wonderful and were having such a
great time.
See how it all
“fits” together to result in a wonderful day, and wonderful photographs? You really can’t separate them!
A True
Tragic Story Of A Bride And Groom,
And
What It Means For You.
Let me take a
moment to tell you a true story. It’s
important to you to hear this.
Several years ago,
I received a phone call from a woman whose wedding I had photographed a couple
of years before.
Here’s what she
said, “Jim, I just wanted to call you and tell you that our house burned down
last night.”
I said, “Oh,
She said, “We got
out okay, and are fine. But I wanted you
to know what I did. It’s the middle of
the night, and the smoke detectors are going off. We grab each other and run for the door! But I stopped and picked up our Three Volume
Set of Photography you did for us on our wedding day! I left the beautiful candelabra
that was my grandmothers. I left
the family heirloom bible that has been in the family for 3 generations. I left EVERYTHING, except those three
volumes. Because they
are so meaningful to me. Everyone
who I love and care about is in those volumes.
I couldn’t let them burn!
“Now, I understood
that you have the negatives, and could have made us another set of
photographs. That wasn’t why I ‘saved’
them. I saved them because those volumes
contain all the emotions, love, romance, and relationships that matter in our
lives! I just wanted you to know
that. Thank you so much for the wonderful,
emotional photographs you created for us.”
When she finished
speaking, she was crying, and so was I.
She had just put into words, what I had not been able to for my entire
career.
You see how
“Emotional Family Photography” can make your wedding volumes absolutely PRICELESS?
In my humble
opinion, the tender fabric of your life is sewn together with beautiful,
emotional moments between you and your loved ones, and I want to capture and
express all those wonderful moments for you in your wedding volumes - and
accomplish this without interfering with the emotions and romance of your
wedding day.
Here’s What To Do Right Now!
Here’s what I
strongly recommend you do IMMEDIATELY!
Pick up the phone and call Cindy or me toll FREE at 877-776-7300 right
now. Ask us if we still have your
wedding date available. Here’s the
problem - because we are so well known and respected in the community, and
because we ONLY photograph one wedding a day, and because we strictly limit our
weddings to no more than 21 each year, it is very possible that we will already
be booked for your day.
So DO NOT
WAIT EVEN ONE DAY ON THIS! If you agreed with and liked anything in this
letter, call us NOW. There is NO CHARGE
AND NO OBLIGATION for this call! Let’s
just chat a bit, see if your date is still available, and then, if and only if
you would like to, we can set up a time to get together in person and talk
about your wedding. There is no charge
or obligation for this, either.
Sincerely,
James F Ortman,CPC